You may be particularly fussy when it comes to selecting your friends today. Although social situations sometimes mean you hang out with people you might otherwise choose to avoid, they usually just become a part of the mix when participating in group functions. However, you probably dont feel so inclusive now. Considering the limited time and energy you have for recreation, theres no reason to squander it with anyone who falls short of your expectations. Dr. Henry Cloud wrote, Boundaries need to be communicated first verbally and then with actions.
Scorpio On the light side:
Determined and forceful; Emotional and intuitive; Powerful and passionate; Exciting and magnetic
Scorpio On the dark side:
Jealous and resentful; Compulsive and obsessive; Secretive and obstinate
Truth; Hidden Causes; Being involved; Work That is Meaningful; Being Persuasive
Being Given Only Surface data; Taken Advantage of; Demeaning Jobs; Shallow Relationships; Flattery and Flattering
SCORPIO goes with Taurus, Cancer, and Libra (most compatible is Taurus)
These two signs have much in common and are a compatible combination . If both signs are willing to compromise when it comes to their possessiveness and jealousy that exist in each other, they can then move forward mentally, physically and emotionally to find one of the most fulfilling relationships imaginable.
Unless hurricanes and turmoil are enjoyed, this combination is not advisable. Both signs ruled by Mars aggressively seek power in this relationship, and being room for only one king of the household, this relationship is out of order. The only reason these signs show any compatibility is in their sexual viewpoint. So unless one is willing to step down and let the other rule, this match is not advisable.
Scorpios make wonderful partners, they are filled with intensity and passion. Love affairs are taken very seriously often causing jealousy. Their secrecy however, can make confronting problems in their romantic relationship very difficult for them.
The Scorpion person is introverted and intense. They may be cool on the surface, but underneath they are passionately intense when it comes to their emotions.
When love is grand they are very loyal and devoted mates. But they are renown for the sting in their tails when things go wrong romantically for them.
When deeply involved in a relationship Scorpios will show how really passionate they can be. When they fall for someone, it is with hook, line and sinker. That's when they show just how truly passionate they can be.
When relationships begin they are convinced that this is the one they have dreamed about as being the "perfect" one, and they will invest all their energies into the relationship.
Scorpios however, are very jealous and will sometimes work themselves up into a state of jealousy of they imagine their mate is being unfaithful. This is when Scorpios violent temper will emerge, and often with bad results.
Scorpius the Scorpion, is the slayer of Orion. Sent by a jealous Artemis, Orion was stung by the Scorpion and caused his death. Orion could not be saved even by Asclepius, the god of healing. The constellation Scorpio represents the eighth zodiac sign. According to Greek mythology, Scorpio is the scorpion that Hera called in from the underworld to destroy Orion, The Hunter. Orion had been bragging to the gods that he could destroy any creature on earth. One day Phaisow, son of Apollo, took the gods' sun chariot out for an afternoon ride. During that ride the scorpion was able to stop the horses pulling the sun chariot. The creatures reward was to be positioned in the heavens, joining Orion.
Scorpius can be seen in summer from the Northern Hemisphere, but is best seen from the Southern Hemisphere or southern US.
A large and important zodiacal constellation. Among many bright stars, it contains the well-known red giant, Antares, as well as many star clusters and other objects. Antares is a reddish star and is considered the heart of the scorpion. Antares, lies in the upper right and is the brightest star to be found in Scorpius. The Milky Way is seen dimly to the left. The globular cluster just to the right of Antares is Cluster M4.
Determined and forceful Emotional and intuitive Powerful and passionate Exciting and magnetic. Scorpios have magnetic and dynamic personalities. Typically they are likable and have a soothing affect on those around them. Scorpios also tend to be very creative and inventive and excel in professional careers such as medicine chemistry and physics. They tend also to be patient, courteous, loyal and generous. Those around them will often use them to help with problem resolution. Their greatest assets are the powers of will and determination.
Jealous and resentful Compulsive and obsessive Secretive and obstinate. Although patient and courteous, if they become aroused there is no fury equal to the Scorpio. They can become bitterly cutting to those around them. The more sensitive Scorpio may have a tendency to lose their composure and lash out with unconstructively. Because they may possess keen, creative minds, they may tend to day dream to extreme. Scorpios tend to have strong sexual desires that have to be controlled to avoid potential excess in this direction.
The sun sign Scorpio is one of the most powerful astrological signs in the zodiac. Dynamic and forceful, they make excelent leaders. One the list of famous Scorpio people on the left you will find several leaders. This is what they do best, lead. They are very determined and forceful, and do not accept failure as an option. It is not a good idea to get on Scorpio's bad side!
Only one thing hurt's scorpio, and that is their tendency to be emotional. However, being extremely intuitive, it helps them deal with this, and even gives them a physic edge in some situation. They live hard and love hard, and give their hearts fully and unconditionally. Woe be the one to break Scorpio's heart! There will be a price, the sting of this scorpion can be deadly!
Powerful, passionate, exciting and magnetic, these people also make some of the best sales and marketing gurus when they decide to enter this field. They also do well as stock brokers and finacial advisers because they are not afraid to question anything, and look outside the box and think creatively.
Scorpio does have a problem with jealousy sometimes, and they really do have to work on it. Most of them will require proof before actually accusing, but some will go with their instinct. Since they are so intuitive, sometimes they "know" without proof, so if you are with a Scorpio, stay true or get out, because your secret (if you have one) will not stay secret for long.
Scorpios are extremely likable and have a calming almost magical affect on those around them. Their friends and acquaintances use them as a sounding boards to help resolve quarries of all types, both interpersonal as well as physical. Scorpios personality when properly developed set them up to achieve great success. Typically persons born under Scorpio have a mind that allows them to attain the degree of self control that is essential for their progress.
Since Scorpios show a propensity for keen observation, they may also possess the ability t meditate which helps them stay focused and in control. They are keenly aware of things going on around them with very few things escaping their notice. With their exceptional will and determination they position themselves to overcome obstacles where most would just give up.
Scorpios basic vitality is strong, however wasting or abusing life's forces are detrimental to their good health. They should avoid highly seasoned foods, allow themselves time for adequate rest and subject themselves to fresh air on a frequent basis.
They tend to be subject to ruptures, hemorrhoids and occasionally toxic diseases. If taken care of as a child, Scorpios can avoid much of the medical opportunities the plague them.
Scorpio children can be very temperamental and vindictive and their emotional extremes must be controlled in order to assure a stable foundation on which a successful adult life can be built.
Scorpios tend not to understand moderation, therefore indulging in excess where eating, drinking and smoking is concerned. By recognizing these tendencies early on and learning how to exercise moderation, they set themselves up for a happy and prosperous adult life.
Scorpios have "Green Peace" admiration for nature and can show extreme aggression in defending it. Likewise, their emotions in love matters are deep and passionate. Because of their deep devoted love, they must avoid unwarranted jealousy which may lead to many disappointments in their romantic life.
Scorpios, being highly creative are constantly thinking of ways to create, modify or improve things. That is why they tend to excel in professional careers.
* ruling planets are Pluto and Mars
* primary color is red
* birthstone is topaz
* lucky day is Tuesday
* lucky numbers are 3 and 5
* lucky color is dark red
* best locations for success are near water
Scorpios are the most intense, profound, powerful characters in the zodiac. Even when they appear self-controlled and calm there is a seething intensity of emotional energy under the placid exterior. They are like the volcano not far under the surface of a calm sea, it may burst into eruption at any moment. But those of us who are particularly
perceptive will be aware of the harnessed aggression, the immense forcefulness, magnetic intensity, and often strangely hypnotic personality under the tranquil, but watchful composure of Scorpio. In conventional social gatherings they are pleasant to be with, thoughtful in conversation, dignified, and reserved, yet affable and courteous; they sometimes possess penetrating eyes which make their shyer companions feel naked and defenseless before them. In their everyday behavior they give the appearance of being withdrawn from the center of activity, yet those who know them will recognize the watchfulness that is part of their character. They need great self-discipline, because they are able to recognize the qualities in themselves that make them different from other humans, and to know their utterly conventional natures can be used for great good, or great evil. Their tenacity and willpower are immense, their depth of character and passionate conviction overwhelming, yet they are deeply sensitive and easily moved by their emotions. Their sensitivity, together with a propensity for extreme likes and dislikes make them easily hurt, quick to detect insult or injury to themselves (often when none is intended) and easily aroused to ferocious anger. This may express itself in such destructive speech or action that they make lifelong enemies by their outspokenness, for they find it difficult not to be overly critical of anything or anyone to whom they take a dislike.
They can harness their abundant energy constructively, tempering their self-confidence with shrewdness and their ambition with magnanimity toward others provided they like them. They relate to fellow workers only as leaders and can be blunt to those they dislike to the point of cruelty. In fact they are not above expressing vindictiveness in deliberate cruelty. They are too demanding, too unforgiving of faults in others, perhaps because they are not aware of the shortcomings within themselves, and extravagantly express their self-disgust in unreasonable resentment against their fellows. They do, however, make excellent friends, provided that their companions do nothing to impugn the honor of which Scorpios are very jealous. Part of the negative side of the Scorpio nature is a tendency to discard friends once they cease to be useful, but the decent native is aware of, and fights this tendency.
They are fortunate in that their strong reasoning powers are tempered with imagination and intuition, and these gifts, together with critical perception and analytical capacity, can enable the Scorpions to penetrate to profundities beyond the average. They have a better chance of becoming geniuses than the natives of any other sign.But charismatic "twice-born" characters such as they can sink into the extremes of depravity if they take the wrong path, and the intensity of their nature exaggerates their harmful tendencies into vices far greater than the normal.
Rebelliousness against all conventions, political extremism to the point where hatred of the Establishment makes them utterly unscrupulous terrorists. Brooding resentment, aggressive and sadistic brutality, total arrogance, morbid jealousy, extreme volatility of temperament, these are some of their vices. At the other extreme is the procrastinator, the man or woman who is capable of so much that they do nothing and become indolent and self-indulgent, requiring extravagant praise and flattery from those whom they make their cronies. Being so gifted, they can find fulfillment in many employments. Their inner intensity can result in the ice-cold self-control and detachment of the surgeon, the concentration of the research scientist, and the heroism of the soldier. Any profession in which analysis, investigation, research, dealing with practicalities, and the solving of mysteries are relevant, can appeal to them. So police and detective work, espionage and counterespionage, the law, physics or psychology may attract them, and they can become masters of the written and spoken word. They may be most persuasive orators and find fulfillment as diplomats or preachers and, if they make the Church their profession, their inner intensity can express itself in the spiritual fervor of the mystic or the thaumaturgy.
Scorpio is the symbol of sex and Scorpios are passionate lovers, the most sensually energetic of all the signs. For them, union with the beloved is a sacrament, an "outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace.". Their overriding urge in loving is to use their power to penetrate beyond themselves and to lose themselves sexually in their partners in an almost mystical ecstasy, thus discovering the meaning of that union which is greater than individuality, and is a marriage of the spirit as well as of flesh. They are thus capable of the greatest heights of passionate transport, but debauchery and perversion are always dangers, and Scorpios can become sadistic monsters of sensuality and eroticism. Their feelings are so intense that even when their love is of the highest, and most idealistic kind, they are nevertheless frequently protagonists in tragic, even violent romances, "star-crossed lovers".
Possible Health Concerns... Scorpio governs the pelvis and reproductive and urinary systems and its subjects are said to be prone to ailments of the liver and kidneys, stones and gravel in the bladder or genitals, and other genital ills such as priapism. Abscesses, boils, carbuncles, fistulas, piles, ruptures and ulcers may also affect the Scorpions.
PROBLEMS THAT MAY ARISE FOR YOU, AND THEIR SOLUTIONS
As with all sun signs, we all have unique traits to our personalities. When these traits are suppressed, or unrealized, problems will arise. However, with astrology we can examine the problem and assess the proper solution based on the sun sign characteristics. As a Scorpio you may see things below that really strike home. Try the solution, you most likely will be amazed at the results. If you find yourself on the receiving end of the negatives below, it is because you are failing to express the positive.
Problem: Suffering from an inferior complex where you feel self disgust and are disdainful of help from others.
Solution: You should try to admit that others, as well as yourself, have weakness and then practice forgiving those weaknesses until you notice them becoming less and less. Unbend and accept that you can be helped in your problems.
Problem: After you get everyone to agree with you and you get your own way, you are still not satisfied with the results.
Solution: Looking deeply within will show you that: having reached the point where you have nothing more to want for in a given situation you then realize just what you were really after. Look within first.
Problem: Disruptive marital relations or a breakup with a loved one.
Solution: You should try not to be scornful of what you perceive as a shortcoming in your partners personality and soften up your rigid, unbending attitude.
Problem: The peers in your group begin to avoid you, or drift away when you walk up.
Solution: If you feel persecuted and put upon you will express it in conversation, this causes people to be 'turned off' of you so try to change your attitude or, guard what you say.
Some Famous Folks That Share Your Sign!
|October 24, 1632 - A.van Leeuwenhoek - Microbiologist
October 24, 1644 - William Penn - Founder
October 24, 1947 - Kevin Kline - Actor
October 25, 1888 - Richard E. Byrd - Explorer
October 25, 1881 - Pablo Picasso - Artist
October 25, 1941 - Helen Ready - Singer
October 26, 1914 - Jackie Coogan - Child Actor
October 26, 1919 - Reza Pahlavi - Shah Royalty
October 26, 1946 - Pat Sajak - TV Host
October 26, 1947 - Hillary R. Clinton - First Lady
October 26, 1947 - Jaclyn Smith - Actress
October 27, 1857 - Theodore Roosevelt - President US
October 27, 1872 - Emily Post - Etiquette
October 27, 1914 - Dylan Thomas - Writer
October 27, 1926 - H.R. Haldeman - Nixon Cabinet
October 27, 1932 - Sylvia Plath - Poet
October 27, 1963 - Marla Maples - Celebrity
October 28, 1914 - Jonas Salk - Scientist
October 28, 1939 - John Cleese - Actor
October 28, 1949 - Kate Jackson - Actress
October 28, 1616 - Nicholas Culpepper - Astrologer
October 28, 1955 - Bill Gates - Computer
October 29, 1897 - P.J. Goebbels - Nazi
October 29, 1947 - Richard Dreyfuss - Actor
October 29, 1971 - Winona Ryder - Actress
October 28, 1949 - Kate Jackson - Actress
October 30, 1885 - Ezra Pound - Poet
October 30, 1924 - Truman Capote - Writer
October 30, 1939 - Grace Slick - Singer
October 30, 1945 - Henry Winkler - Actor
October 30, 1951 - Harry Hamlin - Actor
October 31, 1900 - Ethel Waters - Singer
October 31, 1931 - Dan Rather - Newscaster
November 1, 1866 - Cherio - Occultist
November 1, 1871 - Steven Crane - Writer
November 1, 1942 - Larry Flint - Publisher
November 2, 1755 - Marie Antoinette - Royalty
November 2, 1795 - James K. Polk - President US
November 2, 1865 - Warren G. Harding - Politician
November 2, 1913 - Burt Lancaster - Actor
November 2, 1938 - Pat Buchanan - Journalist
November 2, 1942 - Shere Hite - Writer
November 3, 1794 - William C. Bryant - Writer
November 3, 1901 - Andre Malraux - Writer
November 3, 1922 - Charles Bronson - Actor
|November 3, 1933 - Michael Dukakis - Politician
November 3, 1952 - Roseanne Arnold - Actress
November 4, 1879 - Will Rogers - Entertainer
November 4, 1916 - Walter Cronkite - Newscaster
November 4, 1919 - Martin Balsam - Actor
November 4, 1937 - Loretta Swit - Actress
November 5, 1911 - Roy Rodgers - Singer
November 5, 1913 - Vivian Leigh - Actress
November 5, 1931 - Ike Turner - Singer
November 5, 1941 - Elke Sommer - Actress
November 5, 1941 - Art Garfunkel - Singer
November 5, 1942 - Paul Simon - Singer
November 5, 1963 - Tatum O'Neal - Child Actress
November 6, 1854 - John P. Sousa - Composer
November 6, 1946 - Sally Field - Actress
November 6, 1946 - Maria Shriver - Kennedy Family
November 7, 1867 - Marie Curie - Scientist
November 7, 1879 - Leon Trotsky - Revolutionary
November 7, 1913 - Albert Camus - Writer
November 7, 1918 - Billy Graham - Religious Reader
November 7, 1922 - Al Hirt - Musician
November 7, 1926 - Joan Sutherland - Singer
November 7, 1937 - Mary Travers - Singer
November 7, 1943 - Joni Mitchell - Singer
November 8, 1907 - Katherine Hepburn - Actress
November 8, 1922 - Christian Barnard - Surgeon
November 8, 1949 - Bonnie Raitt - Singer
November 8, 1950 - Philip Sedgwick - Astrologer
November 9, 1826 - Charubel - Astrologer
November 9, 1914 - Hedy Lamarr - Actress
November 9, 1918 - Spiro Agnew - Politician
November 9, 1934 - Carl Sagan - Scientist
November 9, 1952 - Lou Ferrigno - Celebrity
November 10, 1925 - Richard Burton - Actor
November 10, 1946 - David A. Stockman - Political Aide
November 11, 1821 - F. Dostoevsky - Writer
November 11, 1918 - George Patton - Military
November 11, 1922 - Kurt Vonnegaut - Writer
November 11, 1925 - Jonathan Winters - Comedian
November 11, 1962 - Demi Moore - Actress
November 12, 1833 - Alexander Borodin - Composer
November 12, 1840 - Auguste Rodin - Sculpture
November 12, 1929 - Grace Kelly - Royalty
November 12, 1945 - Neil Young - Singer
November 12, 1961 - Nadia Comaneci - Athlete
|November 13, 1850 - Robert L. Stevenson - Writer
November 13, 1928 - Michel Gauguelin - Astrologer
November 13, 1949 - Whoppi Goldberg - Comedienne
November 14, 1896 - Mamie Eisenhower - First Lady
November 14, 1908 - Joseph McCarthy - Politician
November 14, 1912 - Barbara Hutton - Actress
November 14, 1935 - King Hussein - Jordan Royalty
November 14, 1948 - Prince Charles - Royalty
November 15, 1891 - Erwin Romel - Military
November 15, 1925 - Howard Baker - Chief of Staff
November 15, 1929 - Ed Asner - Actor
November 15, 1932 - Petula Clark - Actress
November 15, 1956 - Ashley Cox - Model
November 16, 1936 - Dick Cavett - TV Host
November 17, 1907 - Francis Regardie - Occultist
November 17, 1925 - Rock Hudson - Actor
November 17, 1938 - Gordon Lightfoot - Singer
November 17, 1942 - Martin Scorsese - Director
November 17, 1943 - Lauren Hutton - Actress
November 17, 1944 - Danny DeVito - Actor
November 18, 1860 - Ignace Paderewski - Musician
November 18, 1931 - Prince R. Orsini - Royalty
November 18, 1939 - Brenda Vacarro - Actress
November 19, 1831 - James Garfield - President US
November 19, 1863 - Billy Sunday - Religious Leader
November 19, 1483 - Martin Luther - Religious Leader
November 19, 1917 - Indira Gandhi - Political Leader
November 19, 1921 - Roy Campanella - Sports Figure
November 19, 1938 - Ted Turner - Celebrity
November 19, 1962 - Jody Foster - Actress
November 19, 1908 - Alistair Cooke - TV Host
November 20, 1916 - Judy Canova - Actress
November 20, 1925 - Kay Ballard - Comedienne
November 20, 1925 - Robert Kennedy - Attorney General
November 20, 1939 - Dick Smothers - Comedian
November 20, 1956 - Bo Derek - Sex Symbol
November 21, 1694 - Votaire - Writer
November 21, 1920 - Stan Musial - Sports Figure
November 21, 1938 - Marlow Thomas - Actress
November 21, 1946 - Goldie Hawn - Actress
November 22, 1819 - George Eliot - Writer
November 22, 1890 - Charles De Gaulle - Statesman
November 22, 1869 - Andre Gide - Writer
November 22, 1924 - Geraldyne Page - Actress
November 22, 1921 - Rodney Dangerfield - Comedian
November 22, 1943 - Billie Jean King - Tennis Star
November 22, 1958 - Jamie Lee Curtis - Actress